1. My advice if someone cheats on you is to leave it. A relationship is like a glass vase, once it has smashed, it’s very hard to put back together, and even if you do manage to put it back together, it still has cracks in it.

I know, one of my biggest regrets was getting back with him after he cheated on me over the summer - what do I have to show for it? months of hysteria and insecurity. And now it’s somehow so much harder to leave. I wish that this academic year was over with and I had a job/funded PgD/PGCE offer in another [part of the] country so I could just run the fuck away. Not the most mature method to deal with this, however, I’ll grant you…  :P

  1. that we are I’m still moping over Dan, am like a yo-yo. We talk ourselves out of things and into things us girls that’s our problem. We think too much and try to rationalise but truth is we will never know what actually goes on in their heads. xx

Men are an enigma, and, at that, they’re one I’m quickly losing patience with …in romantic terms, that is; eliminating male friends would mean getting rid of Bush: noooo!! >.<